Immersive Retreats for Leaders & Teams

Supporting leaders to build resilience, nurture well-being, and lead with presence and wisdom for sustainable change. 

Is This Your Moment?

What Are You Being Called To?

Do you long to lead with clarity, presence, and inner resilience?

If so, the Contemplative Leadership Retreat offers space to slow down, deepen self-awareness, and cultivate wisdom from within.

The Peacemaking for Leaders Retreat introduces principles of nonviolence, compassionate communication, and restorative frameworks for transforming conflict into trust, dialogue, and relational clarity.

The Ubuntu Leadership Retreat explores how collective leadership and shared values can strengthen culture, deepen connection, and foster a sense of shared purpose across teams.

The Contemplative Leadership Retreat offers a reflective space to build inner resilience, strengthen clarity, and lead with presence in times of uncertainty.

Who These Retreats Are For?

SAY HELLO TO

Dr. Thulani​

With nearly three decades of experience in leadership, peacebuilding leadership development, peacebuilding, and contemplative practice, I guide leaders and organizations in cultivating resilience, equity, and ethical leadership. 

Drawing from the wisdom of Ubuntu, nonviolence, and contemplative leadership, I help individuals and teams navigate complexity with clarity, presence, and purpose.

Reimagining Leadership for a New Era

Frequently Asked Questions

Our retreats are designed to accommodate both virtual and in-person formats to best suit your needs. Virtual retreats are conducted using interactive online platforms, ensuring a dynamic and engaging experience from anywhere. In-person retreats are held at thoughtfully chosen locations, providing an immersive environment that fosters deep connection and learning.

Our retreats are designed for individuals looking to enhance their leadership and teamwork skills. They are particularly beneficial for emerging leaders, seasoned executives, and teams. 

To prepare effectively, ensure full engagement from all participants by clearing schedules and minimizing distractions. We encourage individuals and teams to identify specific outcomes and goals they wish to achieve during the retreat, which helps maximize the impact of the experience.

Absolutely! We specialize in customizing our retreats to align with your specific goals and challenges. Each retreat is designed to address the unique needs of your organization, ensuring a relevant and impactful experience for all participants.

Our retreats typically range from a half-day session to multiple days, depending on the specific program and goals. We customize the duration to best fit the needs of the group and the depth of content covered.

Participants can expect to develop a deeper understanding of mindfulness and its application to leadership, enhancing their authenticity and presence. They will leave with practical skills for embodied leadership, fostering greater personal alignment and effectiveness in their professional roles.

Testimonials

What Others Are Saying

I have gained invaluable insights on cultivating spaces of belonging, leading with purpose, and fostering real, lasting change. An eye-opening experience that deepened my understanding of inclusive leadership and strengthened my ability to create equity-driven solutions.

Sophie Edwards

Marketing Manager

This approach to leadership has profoundly shifted how I lead—bringing wisdom, resilience, and inclusivity to my organization like never before. Through this guidance, I have become a more present and resilient leader, fostering a culture of peace and ethical decision-making in my team.

Amelia Parker

Marketing Manager

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Digital Well-being & Mindful Technology

This offering is where organizational wellness meets measurable, lasting results. We care deeply about the work we do—and about the people and organizations we serve. That’s why we intentionally track progress and evaluate the effectiveness of every engagement. Using a range of assessment tools and feedback methods, we measure growth over time—not just in performance metrics, but in the overall health, well-being, and cohesion of teams.

The most meaningful indicator of success? When individuals and organizations feel stronger, more connected, and more aligned with their mission. Our goal is always sustainable transformation—not surface-level change.

Digital Well-being & Mindful Technology

This offering supports leaders and teams in cultivating a more intentional, balanced relationship with technology. Using a mindfulness-based approach, we help individuals engage with digital tools in ways that reduce stress, prevent burnout, and foster presence. With a doctoral concentration in media technology and innovation, Dr. Thulani DeMarsay brings a deep understanding of how technology shapes modern work and well-being. She has led technology initiatives across mid-sized and large organizations to help them better serve their mission—while also witnessing firsthand how constant digital engagement can lead to overload and disconnection.

Through this work, we guide teams in rethinking their digital habits, using tech more mindfully, and creating a culture of clarity, focus, and purpose.

Energy & Flow for Sustainable Leadership

We see energy and flow as essential for sustainable, effective leadership—and for how individuals show up in every aspect of life. This offering is grounded in the science of flow by Dr. Mihaly Csikszentmihalyi and the research of Dr. Jim Loehr, co-author of The Power of Full Engagement. It’s inspired by the idea of the “corporate athlete,” acknowledging that today’s leaders often work long hours with increasing demands, yet struggle to maintain energy and focus over time.

Combining insights from elite athletics and human performance science, we offer practical tools to assess personal energy, recover effectively from extended effort, and create the conditions for deep flow. Leaders gain strategies to stay clear, grounded, and resilient—no matter what the pace of life requires.

Integrative Nutrition & Vitality

Led by certified integrative health coaches, this offering provides personalized, holistic support to nourish the body, restore vitality, and sustain high energy levels. Rooted in the principle of bio-individuality, we partner with individuals and teams to co-create nutrition and lifestyle plans tailored to their unique needs and leadership goals. It’s not just about what’s on your plate—it’s about cultivating the energy, mental clarity, and resilience needed to lead with presence, focus, and strength. 

Holistic Health Coaching

This offering provides individualized support designed to meet each person or team exactly where they are. We begin with a guided visioning process to clarify your desired outcomes and long-term goals. From there, we work collaboratively to co-create a personalized wellness plan that supports your mental, emotional, physical, and spiritual well-being. Whether in one-on-one sessions or group settings, our coaching is rooted in a holistic, client-centered approach that honors each person’s unique path.

The result is sustainable growth and meaningful change aligned with what matters most to you.

Stress Resilience & Emotional Mastery

our approach to Stress Resilience and Emotional Mastery empowers individuals to stay grounded and clear-headed even in the most demanding situations. Participants learn to regulate their nervous systems, manage emotional triggers, and cultivate presence under pressure. Through mindfulness-based practices and science-backed techniques, we guide people to transform stress into strength—fostering calm, confident decision-making, emotional intelligence, and a deeper sense of inner stability.

This offering is ideal for teams and leaders who thrive in fast-paced environments but seek tools to prevent burnout and sustain well-being.

Kamogelo Maema

Kamogelo, based in Pretoria, South Africa, is a vibrant and solutions-driven professional who brings enthusiasm, adaptability, and a human-centred approach to his role at Thulani Consulting Group. As the Executive Assistant, he plays a key role in keeping operations running smoothly, supporting both the administrative and strategic needs of the team. His calm presence, attention to detail, and ability to manage complex logistics make him an essential part of the organisation.

He is also a skilled technical producer for online events, using a variety of platforms and digital tools to deliver well-coordinated and engaging virtual workshops. Beyond the screen, Kamogelo is an insightful facilitator, passionate about creating spaces for reflection and growth, and supporting teams through behaviour-focused interventions that improve how people connect and work together.

He holds a Bachelor of Arts in Human Geography and Anthropology, along with an Honours degree in Environmental Studies from the University of the Witwatersrand. His academic journey deepened his interest in how people navigate and shape the environments they’re part of—insights he continues to apply in his work every day.

Octavia Hendricks

With over two decades of experience, Octavia is a dynamic force in the realm of transformational learning, guiding individuals and organizations toward deep self-awareness, healing, and authentic growth. As a seasoned facilitator, she has masterfully led personal development and self-discovery workshops across South Africa and the United States, empowering individuals to reconnect with their essence and embrace their full potential.

With a strong foundation in business development and strategic facilitation, Octavia bridges the worlds of corporate leadership and deep inner work. Her expertise lies in crafting innovative programs, developing strategic objectives, and aligning organizational structures with human-centered growth.

As a senior facilitator at the Sankofa Institute for Collective Wellbeing, Octavia curates and leads healing circle gatherings, fostering spaces where personal evolution and collective healing intersect. She is also a visionary leader in corporate wellness, having served as Head of Wellness & Spirituality within multi-billion-dollar organizations. In this role, she has spearheaded initiatives that cultivate a culture of holistic well-being, integrating psychological, emotional, and spiritual wellness into the corporate fabric.

Having studied under international pioneers in energy work and human consciousness, Octavia brings a profound understanding of the interconnectedness of mind, body, and spirit. As a counsellor, strategic facilitator, and life coach, she helps individuals and organizations uncover the emotional, psychological, and physical roots of dis-ease – guiding them toward transformation, balance, and true empowerment.

Octavia’s mission is clear: to create meaningful change by helping people and organizations unlock their full potential, fostering healing, and cultivating a life and workplace rooted in authenticity, wellness, and purpose.

Dr. Thulani

I’m Thulani DeMarsay, and for nearly three decades, I’ve worked at the intersection of leadership development, contemplative science, wellness, and technology and innovation. Over the past 25 years, I have consulted with leaders from diverse sectors across the United States and, more recently, in West and Southern Africa. My mission is clear: to help leaders and teams maximize effectiveness while honoring well-being. I firmly believe that our ability to be effective is directly tied to our emotional, spiritual, psychological, and physical health.

I earned my PhD in Human Development, with a concentration in Technology, Media, and Innovation. My dissertation research focused on contemplative leadership, exploring how reflective practices such as mindfulness, meditation, silence, yoga, and other practices build resilience in leaders and help them thrive during times of disruption. My research revealed how these practices enhance decision-making, emotional intelligence, and organizational well-being, equipping leaders with the tools they need to navigate complexity and foster both individual and organizational resilience. My concentration further explored how organizations can leverage technology to advance their mission effectively.

An Evening with Thulani: Wednesday, February 28th 
Time: 10:00 AM (EST), 1:00 PM (PST), 8:00 PM (SAST) Duration: 1 Hour
Location: NY, 222-3344

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